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I'll use my dick instead of that elie. ;D

 

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You don't have experience in the thing me and Sylky have been it. I assume you have a vagina? I don't think you do. Also I think sex is one of the most amazing things in the world.

Also, yes, feelings of mutual love SHOULD be a large factor in loving someone initially, but eventually, sex becomes a large part of the relationship. Then you kinda need to be adequate under the sheets.

 

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yes she is right
and signing into hotmail
if you cant its fine i will chat to someone else

 

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Well, you're putting yourself across to me as someone who thinks they know everything. As I said before sex isn't the best thing on the planet. I'm sticking by that. But you also come across to me as the type who is into sexually based relationship, because to begin with you said that sex was important in a relationship.

 

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you're missing nat's point she said you don't know what women feel...
and sex IS important in a relationship, just not the most important. maybe you should read nat's respond again because you obviously don't get it

and you obviously NEVER had GREAT sex

 

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No I don't know everything. I know I don't know everything and I don't act as if I know everything. You only assume I do.

Sylky said size does matter, which it does, but I'm asking if, how do you know if size matters if it's the man that's giving? I mean, the man doesn't always know if what he's doing is pleasing or not. If they do know, well kudos, you either know the lady well or you have some sort of psychic ability.

You're talking about someone who's essentially a nympho. I love sex, I'm addicted. I'm also not in a primarily sexual based relationship. I'm married to the man I've known for 5 years prior to our wedding and we've been married for two years. Also sex is important, it's not important initially, looks take a part of first looks. Then it's more about personality, then it's about sex and all of these things.

Relationships are complicated things, I'm not saying sex is the most important thing, but it's one of them, along with personality, and compatibility.

Sex is a strange thing, it's a physical and emotional bond, it requires all of those above things. I'm using the word sex but what I really mean is making love. Without good sex or a good making love session, the connection isn't really prominent. It gets better with time of course.

For someone to say that sex isn't important in the relationship hasn't really been in a relationship involving making love. Yeah it's a large assumption, but I'm willing to guess.

 

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Correction, I'm not interested in it. It's been 15 months without and I don't plan to have it anytime soon.

I don't understand why you're disagreeing with my views, you say that everyone is different, women for instance may like different positions during sex or making love, as you fondly point out. I'm not fond of sex as you are. I'm different from you and a whole host of other people. I'm not designed to be normal, through experience.

You like sex, I don't. Simple. Now please stop arguing over something so trivial. And lets get back to the Girlfriend Topic at hand... After all this Thread is NOT named "What are your opinions on sex?"

 

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you say everybody is different, well everybody has a different view to and so do i. and i'm just making a point you're the one telling me my view is wrong. all i said was : size does matter i didn't say : the size of the dick matters...
and yes i do like sex nothing wrong with that, everybody (except you) does it and everybody like different things
i'm not here to judge your sexual preferences and neither are you

 

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I'm not disagreeing. I'm simply saying that sex eventually becomes part of a relationship, it becomes one of the factors of a relationship. It's not the most important part, but it's a part.

What I'm saying that sexual attraction is eventually needed out of a couple because it's a combination of both a physical attraction and a personality attraction. Every relationship is eventually going to result in sexual activity (depending on how long you're able to abstain or whatever, that's the choice of the couple or an individual).

Congrats on abstaining, me and my hubby didn't do it for a year in a half when we first met.

Also this discussion is a lot more intelligent and entertaining than just saying "i has a girly fwiend yaey!". Eh?

Join the club of misfits, I'm one of the stranger people here. Or I'd like to think so. ._.

 

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I don't mind if you like Sex, it's a matter of personal preference, but you seem to have misunderstood what I've said previously...

It's true that the topic is more interesting and is far more intellectual to the afore-metioned, it creates an interesting debating atmosphere.

Yes I know that that a relationship comes down to sex eventually and I have nothing wrong with that.. Most of the people in my area though seem to think that there is nothing but sex in a relationship.. I'm not saying you're similar to them, You are both obviously very different and argue something else.

What I just mentioned is one of the reasons why I don't really fancy dating anyone again until after university,

 

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Personally I hate that compliment but hay-I can't complain right-that's the first one in...4 years.


Personality is much better than pyshical apperance-but what if "lack" such a thing?

I do stupid things to get attention...of which I shan't mention (you'd get an idea be reading my spam...)


I just read some of this-when did "who has a girl friend" become "what goes in my love spot"?



..this-while fun, going off topic...not to mention above pg13...

(I'm only saying that because I've yet to try such an act-oh woe is me )

 

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I know. I think you've confused my posts with hostility rather than just saying my point. As most people do... :<

And yes, sex is definitely not the most important part of a relationship. If it was, then it's just sex. I'm not for relationships with only sex, although I can only say a little because I've only been in one boyfriend/girlfriend relationship in my life.

That's understandable.

People are all different. I doubt you're ugly, I doubt many people here are. Ugly is subjective, just as pretty and beautiful and handsome are subjective too.

No one really *needs* sex. If it's only because you want to reach some sort of enlightenment or some sort of status. UR DOIN IT WRONG.

 

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I've had plenty of girlfriends. I've been single for a few months now though, not that I haven't asked anyone, it's because I don't want to. Maybe when I get over this depression thing I'll be in the mood to hang out with some chicks more regularly.
Who wants to have a sad fuck for a boyfriend?

 

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mds64:

So you're saying your a virgin? That's just a label, who cares. It'll come one day. As for the seeking attention, that's what you do to get people to notice you. I used to do that but I'm the very opposite now.

Natewlie:

To begin with I did think you was being Hostile, I admit to my flaw. I've been in very few relationships and I've never really felt it to be amazing with sex.. Maybe it's just that I didn't really feel loved by the person..

Mofiee:

That's true, not many people do, there's more to life. You probably can't see that yet, but you'll understand.

I agree completely

 

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Being a virgin is nothing to be ashamed of. Same the other way around.

Yeah people mistake my debating as flaming or hating, when it's not. I just like to point out things that people say and dissect them. I don't know too much about your previous relationships but the best sex is the most meaningful sex, if that makes any sense. Of course feeling pleasure is good, but having a very close bond is the best part of it. The best sex I've ever had was during my honeymoon or around the wedding was, that's where I thought making love was the most meaningful.

Moofiee, I don't know too much about you but investing in any sort of friendship (like with friends and family) is a lot better than just investing into relationships involving a girlfriend. With friends and family, they'll stay with you until the end. Depending on the type of girlfriend/boyfriend.

I found that most people do not purposely find their girlfriend, it's mostly by chance. So stop looking.

I never mean my debating posts to be hostile by the way. I tend to try and speak intelligently and I often edit my posts for mistakes, unlike my other posts, I like to make them some what informative or you know, not trolling.

 

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Ah, wise advice indeed, to both nat and snebbles

But just off topic-I noticed the truly intelligent people here can seem hostile, but they usually have a good point.

Guess it's hard to show intelligence while being kind at the same time-or prehaps the forum distorts our views
I suppose if we all spoke face to face it won't seem that way-we'd probably laugh all day long at some of the stuff-and prehaps the last 'ejectees" would have understood we were only joking about some of what we say...

Now, I don't feel ashamed to not 'do it", but rather curious.
Sure, being a male I learnt everything via word of mouth, and I heard stories, some freaky-amazing-kooky-unusual-or criminal (strange bunch-you get used to it if you ignore) and other's as you'd expect but overall the experience is of many things I just want to "know for myself" instead of obtaining my info be self proclaimed whores (in real life-not here XD).


BACK ON TOPIC

To even know a girl is a challenge-let alone one to keep.

If my mood swings would stop, and prehaps if I left the house I'd have one by now-2 rejections-one harsh-have left me cold and bitter about the whole thing.

(The way I act at spam is rare-it's mostly anger at the world or just being almost...mute-and the gals around here want people who like to party-but when one can't stand in a club with lound music because of a damaged ringing ear-nor a cup of coffee because he can't stand the stuff-I have tried seeking someone simerlar to me but it seems who I percieve myself is somewhat un-attractive-it's ethier they grab me and violently change my emo ways or I sit back and watch the world go on, which would not bother me at all to be honest.)

Oh...and yes I am shy as hell-I only failed twice because it was at work-other than that I have no social contact-and my so-called mates who try to find me someone end up picking up said girl for themselves-and the girl thinking I'm the strangest person they ever met.

There was a 3rd, before the 2-but I was too young to comprehend a relationship-and never got to ask-however it was this time that I had much confidence in myself.

Sure seems like sad dribble, but in a way-it's nice to have a GF but it wouldn't bother me ethier way...

That's the me now-2 years ago I was depressed because of this fact-to see my mates telling stories about thier Gf's or just having a fun night out while they tagged along-but...

I guess I learnt how hard the job to keep them was-the guys dumping because they altered thier lives for themselves-the guys doing it to another girl for no reason and the times when it just would never work...

If anything despite my attitude, I'm happier than they are-A BIG SURPRISE!

(that and I still have some cash to stop caving in-they blew thiers on cheap jewerly that was overpriced...)

 

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Nice Essay, I apologise if I seem hostile. I'm not trying to be but I'm just trying to get my messsage across about my opinion, As you are.

Yeah it's true, you should never look for a girlfriend/partner as such, it'll just happen by chance. You have to remember that life doesn't work out like the movies though, which does suck I admit.

 

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it's all in the way you read it if you feel down everything you read "sounds" angry
and face to face you see eachothers face expressions out here you just have to guess

 

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I don't have a girlfriend

 

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So you're saying that I'm upset / down now?

I'm just kidding haha.