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Opposite of love?

Discussion in 'Debates' started by XD9999, Nov 18, 2008.

  1. apophos755

    apophos755 Well-Known Member

    Re: a dumb question

    It's never too late to learn.
     
  2. 1Blacks1

    1Blacks1 Well-Known Member

    Ye i no. im learning

    :D
     
  3. kamage

    kamage Well-Known Member

    WHy is it that when you're out of love, you're either sad, or mad? opposite of mad is happy.. sad is happy... what gives!?
     
  4. apophos755

    apophos755 Well-Known Member

    "Moving on is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard." - Dave Mustaine

    Smart man.
     
  5. darksynyster

    darksynyster Well-Known Member

    I read this somewhere (can't remember where) and I thought it was pretty clever.

    "The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference."

    There was a whole article about it. It just said the above and that hate is the opposite of like, not love. I thought that was a pretty interesting perspective on it.
     
  6. XD9999

    XD9999 Well-Known Member

    i agree...but if hate is just the opposite of like, we can say that it is a form of attention, attention gives concern, concern is a form of affection..so can we say that hate is also a form of love?
     
  7. Loonylion

    Loonylion Administrator Staff Member

    you could... that's where phrases such as 'love to hate' come from.
     
  8. Mikau

    Mikau Member

    Hate is as much of an attracting force as love. They are on one side of a coin, the flip side of which is despisation, real repulsion.
     
  9. Almo

    Almo Well-Known Member

    That sounds like it may be an interesting article...

    Who says that 'love' has an opposite, is it not possible that love could be the highest emotion available to man and that no feeling or emotion (even that of hate) can surpass the emotion of love.

    The world of matter is balanced, where each positive has a negative. Human emotion has no mass and is comprised of no matter, human emotion is also far from balanced, depending on the perspective of the emotion itself, or the view of the emotion.
     
  10. cjdogger

    cjdogger Guest

    Not just human emotion; animal too!
    But anyways: Have you not felt deep desire to get revenge; if something you loved was killed/destroyed would that vengeful feeling be the opposite of love? And couldn't spite also be an opposite of love?
     
  11. XD9999

    XD9999 Well-Known Member

    That may be true, but even if it is so man tends to have the nature to go for the most beautiful. So whatever that higher/highest emotion be, Ill bet it will be called a segment of love.

    probably not. i dont know how to explain it well so lets just define based on a dictionary.

    love - A strong positive emotion of regard and affection
    spite - Feeling a need to see others suffer
    indifference - Apathy demonstrated by an absence of emotional reactions
    care - Feel concern or interest

    Love and spite have the urge to satisfy a goal, to quench the interest that lurks your mind. To give end to your curiousity. Both have the need to "CARE". Indiferrence however have none of that. Thus the opposite of caring is that which does not care which is indiferrence or apathy.
     
  12. Usoppu

    Usoppu Well-Known Member

    fine then how about despise
     
  13. XD9999

    XD9999 Well-Known Member

    despise - Look down on with disdain

    i think despise is like hate, only that its more specific so the theory is pretty much the same.
     
  14. cjdogger

    cjdogger Guest

    You can't just define those words with one meaning...
     
  15. XD9999

    XD9999 Well-Known Member

    true..thats why im just assuming.
     
  16. Barathrum

    Barathrum Well-Known Member

    You can just look a word up in the dictionary and assume, some words mean more, for example "love" doesn;t just mean 'A strong positive emotion of regard and affection'. Love can mean pages and pages.
     
  17. XD9999

    XD9999 Well-Known Member

    yeah you are very much correct, there are lots of forms of loves. From platonic love to the painful mashochistic love. There are so many that i can't help but wander what "pattern" they have to consider them love?