If I fell in love in first sight...

My have we gone off topic...


I already said mine in the 1st page-just checked

 

How'da hell you kno? Maybe you didn't only.

 

some of them not all.......

 

Here's why you can't LOVE at first sight, because you can't automatically LOVE someone, especially when you first see them. Love takes time to grow, yeah sure when you first see them it's like 'I like her' it's not love. It's an infatuation. Once you get to know a person, you start the process of love.

Love is an acceptance of a person along with the flaws and learn to embrace all the qualities of that person and enjoy their company A LOT. You can't get any of that at first glance.

" 1. A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities, or a sense of underlying oneness."

You can't get out all these things from first glance. And you can't get a strong deep emotional attachment out of someone at first glance.

The actual definition of love is blurry, but what you get out of a first sight from someone is not love.

Why would I know something about this? I've known my husband since kindergarten (we went to school together up until grade 8, he came back in High School because he moved). But I never went to play with him, in my classes, he was just another kid. I was one of the girls who played with the boys, because I'm BAD ASS. Never once I felt a crush or even attraction towards him. Then in grade 8 I met him because he used to smoke pot with me with my group of friends. Dance was coming up, I had no one, so I asked him. It was a yes and then I started crushing on him and vice versa. Never once before I learnt to know him I did not love him. I liked him.

Oh I did have butterflies.

 

Quoted.For.Truth.

 

hmmmm...... love at first sight doesnt exist

 

obviously you can't actually fall in love at fist sight but i don't think that's where the saying originates from.

it more likely to come from seeing someone you like and eventually falling in love with them and staying together.

i saw my girlfriend and decided i wanted her then and there, got her and now have been in love for 5 years so its a bit like love at first sight without being too literal

 

lol........... true i guess

 

Well it's not literal
You CAN'T fall in love just be seeing somebody

You can be like, "oh she's pretty I wanna meet her" though

 

or you could be, she's pretty and looks like she's got a nice persona, i wont mind spending the rest of my life with her....

 

Not the moment you see her but ,I dunno ,when she starts talking you can. I fell. And believe me, sometimes you can.

 

it could happen the moment you see her or look into her eyes..... some people say they feel a "connection" or a "spark" when that happens

 

you feel the "spark" or "click" but that's not love. it's just like when you meet new people, some you like from the start and some you don't like. it just takes time to love someone.

 

yea it takes time.... not long though.... not long

 

You wouldn't have known her long enough to love her, yet again it proves you don't know

 

would is not must

 

Don't twist my words.
You are wrong and I am right.
Kthnxbye.

 

Dont do that!!

 

stop being so annoying asd

 

What am I doing?
I believe there is a thing called "Love in first sight". He doesn't. I am not trying to proove he's wrong. He tries.