How do YOU get a date/relationship/whatever you call it?

Relations are not something you must have.
but when you like someone it will happen, dont worry about that.
But you must love someone and careabout them, thats the most importand part, take it from someone who knows!

 

I get extremely lonely in a fashion that can't be fixed by family or friends. Not, like, lonely as in sex, but... I don't know how to describe it, actually.....

So yes, a relationship is a must-have.

 

Here's what happened to me.

Event: Sports Festival in my School
Location: Random Park chosen to be starting place for the annual mile long walk/parade to start the event.
Time: Late Morning/Noon, (note: the year is 2009)

Me: *walks in with the rest of the BS Biology group* Damn it's hot...
Random Girl: Wanna share my umbrella?
Me: Sure, whatever.
Random Girl: K.

*after 20 minutes of walking in the heat*

Me: By the way, what's your name?
Random Girl: Oh, my name's *name disclosed for privacy*
Me: Hi.
Girl: Hi.

*continue walking for another 10 minutes until we reach the school*

Me: At last! Air conditioning!
Girl: *giggle*
Me: hmm.. where's my friends?
Girl: Wanna hang out for a while till you find them?
Me: Sure.

*after an hour, the girl's friends find us*

Girl: Hi guys! This is Toffee
Me: Hello.
Group: Hi.
Me: Well, I know you want to hang with your friends, See ya later. *turns to leave*
Group and Girl: Hey, no need to leave. You can hang with us!
Me: Ok, sure. Thanks.

*spends the rest of the day with the girl and her friends*

Time change: It is now 7 in the evening.

Me: Well, that was a fun day.
Girl: Yeah.
Me: hmmm
Girl: So, you've never been in a relationship?
Me: Yeah.
Girl: hmmm
Me: well, I know you've been in lots of them.
Girl: Yeah.
Me: hmmm
Girl: Wanna have one with me?
Me: Ok. Sure.

BOOM! Instant Girlfriend.


PS. We broke up three months later. I had to move out here and I knew Long-distance relationships never work.

 

Sex is not importand no not at all.
But why not have a good time with friends then?

 

fall in love

know the person for about 3 years

finally ask them on a date

do step 3 for about 2 years.

finally ask if she wants to be your girlfriend.

if she says yes.

there you go.

 

Because I don't have any friends in rl.

 

I can be your friend. Apparently, I'm charming enough to get a stranger whom I just met as a girlfriend, so I think we can be friends.

 

Sure we can be friends online, but in rl there's no chance. :\

 

Awww.. why not?

 

Inunah, how old are you ?

 

Because anyone who's planned on meeting me in RL ends up just continuously making plans and never doing anything about it.

18....

 

Hey, i wanna be your friend?
Just add me on MSN.

 

It's not the same..... I'd like to have some friends who I can hang out with somewhere and stuff....

 

Nice age
I'm sure you do have friends.
Also on that picture you looked like 30 (in a good way)

 

On msn, yes. In real life.... Not at all. I can't name anyone. The only people who talk to me are on MSN. ;_;

 

Try this, walk up to anybody (preferably within your own age group), and then ask if they share the same interests as you.
If they say yes to anything, continue talking.

Friendship should occur within one to three days depending on how often the treatment is applied.

 

I already know nobody would say yes to anything. Around here, none of the girls in my age group even know what anime is. Less than 4% even play video games. With guys, none of them know about anime, and if they play vidya games they play all the games I hate.

There's no one around here that understands anything I do. More than once, I was asked why I didn't watch Jersey Shore and go to the mall. My answer was always that Jersey Shore is stupid and I can't drive. They always proceeded to poke and prod me with question after question until I was saying things they didn't understand, which were usual things you could talk about on here and everyone would understand.

 

Where do you live?

 

A small hicktown nobody's heard of.

 

Well then, the answer's simple. Move to a big city (Like oh say, Chicago) where all kinds of weirdness is commonplace.
You're old enough.