At a crossroads...

Thanks for all the replies guys. All of your advices and words of wisdom really helped me to deal with this. I know that revenge is not the best way, and I know that I will get through this no matter what happens, I just want to hear it coming from someone else for me to truly believe in it.

I especially want to thank you dedboy. Everything you said really helped me. I know that when the time comes, your advices will float through my head, and I'll be able to make the right decision.

Really, thanks to everyone on this.