Is it wrong for a 14 year old boy to be dating a 11 year old girl?

My friend is 14 and he is seeing a 11 year old girl they both really like each other and he would never pressure her into doing anything she doesn't want to do also she asked him out, so is it wrong?
thanks
james

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not if its just holding hands and stuff

 

but if she wants to score with him?

 

she needs a slap

 

so you think it's wrong?

 

It's not "wrong" per se, but 11 year olds shouldn't really be doing that sort of thing. Imagine if she got pregnant.

 

kids dating? no
kids having sex? yes

 

French kiss?

 

that boy needs to learn the rule of two.

 

rule of 2?

 

Yes, the rule of two. 11 is really far too young to be an acceptable age for him to date, at the most she should be two years younger than him. If I was his friend I'd be firing out Michael Jackson and Gary Glitter references like theres no tomorrow.

 

Well, you have to look at it from your own perspective.

To me it's not fine at all. There's such a wide age of maturity and understanding (kinda) between those age gaps. Now 21 and 18 is very different though.

When my sister gets that age, I'll be watching every step she takes.
I'm 19 and she's just about 7, I know it's a few more years, but still, she's the youngest and the only girl out of 5 kids...so yeah.

 

she is very grown up for her age though. the first time i saw her i thought she was the same age as him

 

Bullshit.

An 11 year old can't be as mature as a 14 year old.
I know. I have siblings and work around kids at times. There is such a gap between the maturity level that it is sometimes unbelievable.

 

She's still a child though, there's no way this is acceptable.

 

Exactly!!!

There is no way in hell I (or my parents) would let my sister date an older guy, let alone go out at that age.
11 years old is still a child no matter what you think.
There's just not the responsibility or know how in their mind about anything to do with a relationship...or other matters at hand.

 

seriously though she is very mature for her age me and another friend thought she was 14 until yesterday when she told us and we had saw her 3 times.

 

But seriously it's wrong.
Just read mine and others posts above.
Just because you look and act older doesn't mean you aren't a child still.

 

but he did not ask her out.
and she will be 12 1st of next month

 

But it's still wrong in my book.
Even at 12, there's such a big difference in maturity.
Just because she's turning 12 doesn't mean she'll instantly be more mature.