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I'n feeling really damn depressed.

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by treec_cynda, Nov 1, 2011.

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  1. treec_cynda

    treec_cynda Guest

    I just recently lost (I think) my last friend, aka my BFF. I'm really feeling depressed. I just need a little bit of help getting over this.

    Thanks a lot for answers.
     
  2. Devon

    Devon Well-Known Member

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    Ring your local helpline. In times like these it's better to hear a voice. Don't be ashamed of calling Suicide Prevention.
     
  3. Jonez001

    Jonez001 Well-Known Member

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    I think what Devon said is the best solution.
     
  4. Loonylion

    Loonylion Administrator Staff Member

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    stay busy, it will distract you.
     
  5. toffster92

    toffster92 Well-Known Member

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    It might for a while, but the feelings will resurface again as soon as you get even a minute of downtime.

    treec_cynda, I won't try to pretend that I understand exactly what you're going through but I do know what it feels like to be suicidally depressed.
    Devon's suggestion is spot on IMO. It helped me A LOT just to hear a voice and to be able to vent out my feelings. Just try to hang on until you can find someone you can really talk to about this.
     
  6. ace1o1

    ace1o1 Well-Known Member

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    Remember them always. Don't let grief get ahold of you. I have seen the affects on a friend of mine. Shot himself. And ask yourself, Do I really want to DIE?!

    As I have heard before, Life is a choice, and death is a decision.

    I used to think about killing myself, but got over it once I realized how fucking awesome life was when I am not being bombarded by school/work and fulfilling my dreams. So far, it's working out. :)

    And if you wanna talk, I have skype.

    Also, just think of everyone else in this type of situation. It's like the prom queen who killed herself, then the prom king, and then a series of other suicides incurred within the school. That is true actually. Heard it on the news sometime ago when I used to watch TV.
     
  7. Loonylion

    Loonylion Administrator Staff Member

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    time heals all wounds. the distraction is only until the loss heals sufficiently to be bearable
     
  8. athemoe

    athemoe Well-Known Member

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    Know that it will be over in some time.
    Everyone has this at least once in their lives.

    Try to make new friends, find a new hobby, ...

    Suicide will harm your family as well.
     
  9. Jonez001

    Jonez001 Well-Known Member

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    ^^ Akane, you are completly right.

    The most important is that you try to find things that make you have. Join the scouts or do something were you feel good in. Try to stay positive in life.

    I admit, many years ago, I had also a pretty bad time. But suddenly somebody new came to my school and he helped me to get to the person I am right now... he is really amazing and we both know him. He is a good friend of me and Akane

    Edit: changed my last sectence because misreadings were possible
     
  10. athemoe

    athemoe Well-Known Member

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    Sam? :)
     
  11. Jonez001

    Jonez001 Well-Known Member

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    Yes, that is indeed him. Our good friend Sam.
     
  12. treec_cynda

    treec_cynda Guest

    Re: PLEASE HELP ME!!

    24 hours later. Not suicidal anymore, just plain depressed.
     
  13. Jonez001

    Jonez001 Well-Known Member

    :D I am happy for you.
    Talk with somebody you trust about it. Like your mother or father.
     
  14. 2DamCerius

    2DamCerius My eyes for your brain...fair trade.

  15. treec_cynda

    treec_cynda Guest

    Absolutely right. 48 hours later, no more depression. Thank you everybody for your support.

    @mods: You can lock this now, thanks.
     
  16. Jonez001

    Jonez001 Well-Known Member

    I will do that. You can get an unlock by pm.
     
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