Let me give an example. There is a guy/girl looks fantastic. /I will say she but consider it as he-she, becoz I am lazy/ She has the best silky hair and an awesome body but; Her voice is kinda annoying. She has less than 20 friends. She really cant communicate if you dont open a conversation. Would you try to get the girl? Just to show off with some pictures? Or would you just stay away since you need a more friendly person? But remember, she/he is smoking. This happened to me and I have chosen to go out. But lemme confess, its not fun :/ I might break up... But every guy looks me in a jealous face ;D
Re: Dating for psychical beauty Sheese, my head hurts now after trying to read that, and I sped read the title too I thought it said "Dating for Psychotic Reasons" so I clicked in...anyway I am not sure what the hell you are getting at with this and I am not even going to try so I am at a loss on adding anything other than the word you are looking for is spelled "Physical"
Re: Dating for psychical beauty This is stupid-a pretty girl would have at least 50 friends (in Australia at least...prehaps more-what preety girl would be isolated...) preety girls can be shy-but the one's I know can't STOP talking... If I got her (not that I would be anti social) I'd make it a meaningful relationship-who'd want to break a preety girl's heart and have her parent's come down on you (I seen that happen...not preety...) Dude...this is gonna end up nasty (the topic I mean) Same reason why I came here...
So let me get it straight, there is a pretty girl but she has a nasty attitude and bad habits like smoking, and your asking what is better, physical beauty or attitude/good habits? if thats the case, i will pick physical beauty, why? its cheaper to change a person inside than the person's outside. I had good example of this, my friend dated a popular girl but she was like the queen and everybody bowed down to her whims. But he tried to befriend the girl and ended being together. She didnt know that she was been a bitch and she change her habits and attitude. They also became the best, good looking couple in school.
smoking is a turn off, as I can't stand particulate matter in my already damaged lungs(exposure to school environments included stronger odors, chemicals, weed, etc, and likely asbestos) And the above is true, most 'pretty' girls are too talkative, so the 'slightly annoying' voice would get aggravating after a short while. No, this girl is not for me. Go Directly To Jail, Do Not Pass Go, Do Not Collect $200.
Hmm. I wouldn't go for her, why? 1. Annoying voices do my head in. 2. Has less then 20 friends, if your that friendless then you must be a bit of a bitch (usually). 3. I hate going out with girls that I can't really talk too, it's too awkward.
AGreed. ...you 2 don't know how to read-AND I HAVE A - [me=mds64]keeps mouth shut [/me] ...well the point is "smoking hot" doesn't mean a smoker...sheesh. "smoking hot" is a term for HOT SEX-AY! ... [me=mds64]facepalms[/me]
To be honest, I think that physical appearances will always be a factor when it comes to who we're attracted to. I would never date a hot jerk simply because he's hot, though. At the end of the day, substance > looks. And boyfriends/girlfriends shouldn't be treated like trophies just to show off :|
I saw the edit-I was being nice XD A fair enough statment if I must say so myself. I'd hate to be a trophy, or treat my partner (if I had one) in such a manner-it de-means them. Jerks are Jerks at the end of the day-all to often-someone would end up with a jerk or b*tch and end up misrable after a month...or 2 years in some cases... They can't look past the looks at times...sad really-they can't even see the fact that the jerk/b*tch is starting fights just to get what they want at times as well. Beauty...is but skin deep. I know a mate who has a GF like that. Biut her natural personality makes up for that... If they can eat for themselves and not be spoon feed I'll be happy with someone lacking IQ-I lack IQ myself at times XD (it'll help if they were smarter than me...but meh-everyone finds a way...)
I only date good looking people, and if they dont want to put on the first date, i MAKE them put out.
Thats the biggest problem that i got. I learned to read. Period. If i didnt learn how to read, i wont be bothered to post an answer to the question. Damn basic education!